Tuesday, January 1, 2019

My Only ("new year") Resolution Is To Forgive

Every time I become aware of my nature as peace, there is no need to make resolutions, not even changes. Because I live in total acceptance of my experience. When I am not in need to make changes in myself, in other words, when I do not judge myself, I do not find myself judging others, I do not find myself needing to change anything or anyone. That is the attitude that allows peace to continue settle, to allow love to continue to grow. So this day, or rather, this moment is perfect.

Does this imply that changes cannot be made? Changes will be made if they have to, only to reflect that peace and that love that I am. But that happens organically, not because of resolutions based on personal desires that are already motivated by the belief that this moment is not perfect. They are simply part of a plan, so to speak, orchestrated by love for the sake of love itself.

Life now becomes simple. January 1 does not differ from an August 8. It is simply this moment, free of concepts. Where there are no concepts, where there are no beliefs, there is peace, there is love.

That is why this day, this moment is not more special than any other day or any other moment. It is only the experience that life presents to me to see if I have learned the only lesson that has to be learned. The lesson that says that I am a Holy Son of God, free of all sin, free of conditions, free of demands, free of commitments, I am pure spontaneity, I am infinite love, I am eternal peace.

Now it is a matter of living and remembering that my only function, whatever the scenario, whatever the day, whatever the feeling, is to forgive. That is my only resolution, which is being done at every moment. Better said, at this moment since it is the only one there is.

Therefore:

• I have the perfect body, with the perfect pounds / kilos, and I do not want to change anything. And if I find myself resisting my weight, my appearance, I forgive.

• I have the amount of money I need to have, and I do not want it to be different. And if I find myself resisting my financial situation, I forgive.

• I live in the country that I have to live, with the social conditions that country has, with the perfect government that country has, and I do not want to change anything. And if I find myself resisting that social condition, I forgive.

• I have the health or lack health that I have at this moment, and I do not want to change anything at all. And if I find myself resisting the current state of my health, I forgive.

• I have the family that I have, and I do not want them to change, or change anything about them. And if I find myself resisting my family situation, I forgive.


• If I find myself without a partner, without a family, on my own, I do not want that to change at all. I accept what I have to live, without any desire for anything to change. And if I find myself resisting my current status, I forgive.

• I have the perfect job, with the perfect employees, with the perfect boss, and I do not want at all for that to change. And if I find myself resisting my work, I forgive.

• I do not have a job right now, and therefore I accept that experience without wanting to change it. And if I find myself resisting my work situation, I forgive.

The paradox is, when I can accept my situation, as it is presented, I am at peace with what-is, and the inspiration that would lead to a change, if necessary, will arises naturally and spontaneously. That is the difference between inspiration and motivation. Inspiration comes from Wisdom, motivation comes from fear, from the mind that believes that "knows" what it wants, that believes that "knows" what is "better".

Then, with the new change in attitude:

• From a state of peace and total acceptance of what is, if I want to exercise to change my appearance or physical condition, I exercise, I diet, only that it no longer feels like a sacrifice, it is what I naturally find inspire to do. And it is not done to aggrandizing the ego by saying, "what a slender body I have" and begin to compare myself with other bodies establishing a hierarchy of power over others. It is done because it is exactly the perfect opportunity for the individual to deepen his process of liberation.

• If I need to generate more money, from my total acceptance and peace will emerge the inspiration that will take me to take the action that is necessary, and life will present me with the necessary resources for that to take place, without any sacrifice or effort. Only the necessary effort needed from my part for life to adapt to my needs.

• If I need a change in my country, if I can do something about it, from my total acceptance and peace I find myself doing something about it. And if I cannot do anything about it, from my total acceptance and peace I may feel inspired to leave that country, or to observe events, free of judgment.

• If I need to do something to improve my health, from my total acceptance and peace, if I have to go to a doctor (allopath or homeopath), or if I have to take medication, or if I have to take supplements, whatever it is that I need to do, I will be inspired to do it. Without fear of what might end up happening.

• I accept my family with all their conditioning, I love them as they are, and if I have something to say to them, from my total acceptance and peace the necessary words will arise. If I have to do something, from my peace the necessary actions will arise, whether it is to go or stay, that action will be inspired by my total acceptance and peace.

• If I do not have a partner, and there is a deep feeling that requires a relationship to take place to continue my healing, life will accommodate it, and there will be nothing I have to do about it to go in search of it. And if something has to be done about it, from my total acceptance and peace I will be inspired to take that action.

• If I need a change in career or job, from my total acceptance and peace it will take place, either as a result of an action that I feel inspired to take, or an opportunity that comes my way. Even getting fired from that job would be the signal I needed.

• If I do not have a job, from my total acceptance and peace, I will feel inspired to do what is necessary, or the opportunity will be presented to me. I do not have to fight with it. Only attend to my peace.

This attitude of total acceptance is not a state of resignation, it is complete trust that everything is part of a plan designed by Love (God) for the benefit of the whole. You do not have to try to understand it, just accept it. And the immediate result of that acceptance is inner peace. When there is peace, what would be the point of wanting something different?